The Panty Rule: How to protect your child from sexual abuse.
The Panty Rule: How to protect your child from sexual abuse.
The panty rule is a simple but important principle that can be used to teach children about their bodies and how to protect themselves from sexual abuse. The essence of the rule is that no one, not even close people, should touch the "private parts" of a child's body without their consent. "Private parts" of the body are those parts that are usually covered by panties, including the genitals, buttocks, and breasts.
Why is the panty rule important?
- Teaching children the panty rule can help them:
- Understand that their bodies belong to them.
- Identify and avoid dangerous situations.
- Say no to any unwanted touch.
- Report any touch they don't like.
How do I teach my child the panty rule?
Here are some tips on how to teach your child the panty rule:
- Start the conversation early. It's never too early to start talking to your child about their body and how to protect themselves.
- Use simple language. Explain the panty rule clearly and concisely, using words your child can understand.
- Be honest. Children ask a lot of questions about sex and body image. Be honest in your answers, but adapt the information to the child's age.
- Create an atmosphere of trust. Let your child know that they can always come to you with any questions or concerns.
- Be consistent. Repeat the panty rule regularly and use it in different situations.
- Set an example. Children learn from the example of their parents. Make sure you respect other people's personal space and say no to any unwanted touch.